You know how sometimes you do something that you absolutely know is wrong and no matter how hard you try not to do it, you do it anyway, because in some wierd way it makes you happy? Like the first time I smoked pot. I knew it was bad but I liked it and after awhile it led to worse and worse things, but I continued. I did eventually quite but, I think things might have gotten really bad before I did. But maybe they didn't, it is weird I am a little hazy on that fact. :).....

Well the question is, are these things really THAT bad, if you are not, technically, hurting anyone?

I am with Melanie on this one. Grad school is shit. It isall about getting to know yourself so you can help others and i think it has me over thinking way too many things.